Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts

Sunday, 31 July 2011

Lateral Violence In the Workplace

Introduction
        The major topics of conflict management that will be discussed within this discussion seminar are; what causes conflict, types of conflict, conventional conflict resolution and an exploration of new approaches to conflict management styles and policies. Highlights on the four types of conflict: Interpersonal conflict, intrapersonal, intergroup conflict and organizational conflict play an integral role in nursing practice and education settings, as well as, the management of political conflict (Mason, Leavitt & Chaffee, 2007). Interpersonal relations between nurses are a topic of considerable importance particularly with ongoing challenges such as; retention of nurses in the profession, the focus on
increased productivity and cost containment in the healthcare system (Duddle & Boughton, 2007).  Much research has also indicated that nurses’ workplace relationships with each other are problematic, have poor colleague relationships, which result in conflict and aggression (Whitworth, 2008). Role conflict, communication conflict, goal conflict, personality conflict, ethical conflict and values are common factor that relate to nursing. Basic strategies of the Thomas-Kilman’s model for conflict resolution include competition, avoidance, accommodation, compromise and collaboration (Zerwekh & Claborn, 2006).
        In 2007, a case study of one Interdisciplinary Research (IR) team, composed of five researchers from nursing and social work disciplines. The controversial IR topic, experience of gay men and lesbians in long-term care facilities, was relevant to both disciplines. The purpose of this case study is to analyze the interpersonal interactions of an IR team and steps taken when conflict interfered with the team's work (Curry, Jenkins, Walker, Cohen, & Hogstel, 2009). Upon initial analysis, five major categories for resolving conflict and achieving outcomes emerged: 1. Revealing threats to identity 2. Embracing conflict 3. Accepting personal responsibility 4. Engaging the process 5. Building team cohesion (Curry et al, 2009).
        Emotional Intelligence (EI) is imperative for nurses to learn how to effectively handle conflict in the work environment. Developing the competencies of EI and understanding how to effectively handle conflict is necessary for nurses (Morrison, 2008).
According to Morrison (2008):
        Effective leadership management includes conflict management and             
        collaboration. The art of relationship management is necessary when 
        handling with other people’s emotions. When conflict is approached
         with high levels of EI, it creates an opportunity for learning effective
         interpersonal skills. Understanding how EI levels and conflict skills
         correlate can be used to improve interpersonal relationships in a
         healthcare facility. 
        Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR): a tool for managing conflict. Is a established conflict management tool widely used to shift norms and values with governmental policies. These policies emerge through a political process shaped by context. Nurses possess substantial values, responsibilities and skills needed for ADR conflict management techniques.
References
Curry, L., Jenkins, D., Walker, C., Cohen, H., & Hogstel, M. (2009).
 Negotiating peace and power in an interdisciplinary research team: 
A case study. Southern Online Journal of Nursing Research, 9(3).
Duddle, M. & Boughton, M. (2007) Intraprofessional relations in nursing.
Journal of Advanced Nursing 59(1), 29–37.
Mason, D., Leavitt, J., & Chaffee, M. (2007). Policy and politics in nursing and
 healthcare. St. Louise: Saunders.
Morrison, J. (2008). The relationship between emotional intelligence competencies
         and preferred conflict-handling styles. Journal of Nursing Management 16, 
        974–983.
Whitworth, B. S., (2008).  Is there a relationship between personality type and
         preferred conflict-handling styles? An exploratory study of registered nurses
         in southern Mississippi. Journal of Nursing Management 16, 921-932.
Zerwekh, J. & Claborn, J. (2006). Nursing today transition and trends. St. Louise:
 Saunders.

Saturday, 19 March 2011

Maslow Hierarchy of Needs and Behavior Change

    Abraham Maslow is a well know Psychologist, many nursing schools base their teachings on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Which in general terms appear to be simplistically laid out. But when looking deeper into Maslow's work, it is not simplistic at all. Maslow outlined principles of self-actualization theory, he emphasizes encouraging our inner nature, and when we deny or suppress expressions of our inner nature is when one experiences illness.

    During my recent research, there are so many aspects to his work.  The depth and realizations of who we are, illness, health, wholism, psychology, spiritual issues and behavior change are a few. He speaks of "deficiency needs" and if they are not met we do not function well. This carry's into all levels within the hierarchy. Obviously for example, if someone is starving, they must meet that deficiency need to maintain health, otherwise illness or death will result. Now looking at it more complex, apply defiency needs to all levels, safety, belonging and self-esteem needs. Maslow states we still must meet these deficiency needs to maintain health and avoid illness - for example, psychopathology may occur if any of those are deficiency needs are not met. Very insightful.
   
    
More interesting I am intrigues with behavior change and the drive behind successful change. There are so many contributing factors when dealing with change that we will address in another blog, but Maslow hits this one on the head as well. Looking at it on such a deep innate level, making it easy to understand and difficult to deal with. He goes on to say that INSIDE US ARE TWO SET OF FORCES:

1. ONE THAT CLINGS TO SAFETY AND DEFENSIVENESS OUT OF FEAR
2. ONE THAT URGES US TOWRD WHOLENESS AND FULL EXPRESSION OF OR TRUE SELVES.

    Again looking at expressing our true nature, if we deny that and cling to safety and defensiveness out of fear - illness will result. Look at your own lives for a second and think of one example or behavior that you can identify you function thru fear and defensiveness, because it may be all you know, it is the safe thing to do you think. But then look and see if there is success in that aspect or situation in your life.

    So let the fear and clinging to safety go and see how you can feel your own true expression of your inner self. I am not saying this is easy, It is the opposite of easy, but what it takes to make positive changes in your life!!!  Good luck

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Hierarchy of Needs

Self-Actualization

Esteem Needs
Belonging Needs
Safety Needs
Physiology Needs

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Arlowski, M. (2009). Wellness Coaching for a Lasting Lifestyle Change. Duluth, Minnesota: 
          Whole Person Associates.
 

Monday, 14 March 2011

Mindful Affirmations










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Love Corner Blog

Quotes on Love 
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By: Chandra Klaiber, RN
Quote By: Merle Shain
"Many of us spend our lives saying we would give anything for love, while we're often really pushing it away."

Quote By: Marianne Williamson
"Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here."

Quote By: Anonymous
"You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart tot he things you do not want to feel."

Quote By: Houssaye
"Tell me whom you love and I will tell you who you are."

Quote By: Oprah Winfrey
"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down."

Quote By: Jalal ad-din Rumi
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."




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